a mother sits beside her daughter

The forces of a larger magnitude pluck the mother up

And place her right down beside her daughter

Just an inch back

Just enough to place her hand on her youngest’s back

She remembers patting her back

When she was a newborn baby

Over her shoulder

Before she pulled her hair

In the backpack carrier

Asking are you my mother?

Do you even want to be here?

It was hard to bear that her daughter wanted to be near her

Aren’t I making it worse?

Just by existing here?

In her big Need

She couldn’t understand how much she was needed

She understood today, however

Because her body told her

The bottom of her lung cavity

Filled with air

For the first time in 38 years

It was then that her father died

And just like that, went all her resources

She hadn’t realized that she was holding on to him from way down there

She hadn’t had a breathe of fresh air in years

After the lung-chucking grief

and her never-ending tears

complete

all goes from static to conducted,

the flow of life runs through like a current!

in her awe-some surprise

she widens her eyes

moves proudly in place

behind her daughter

Determined to protect her

She had stayed out front

Facing backwards

Hips forward

Shoulders and gaze backwards

She realizes now

It’s facing fully forwards

That provides the most

For everyone’s secure-yet-surely-doomed future

The daughter can now be rightly responsible

With the feeling of this privileged weight

Comes a rush of tears

A babbling brook, embodied

That will never end

But allows a continual cleanse

Right within her

Sourced endlessly from those who came before her

The patting isn’t a “stop those tears!”

It’s a “keep that tap going now, dear!”

“That’s it!

Let it all out now

I’m not going anywhere.”

The grandmothers are in chorus above, back and down

Singing out and clinking glasses, “oh my goodness, finally!”